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"Therefore a man shall leave
his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they
shall become one flesh."
Gen 2:24
Marriage is a sacred covenant
ordained by God for the honor and happiness of a man and a
woman. While marriage outside the church is recognized in
society, the marriage ceremony conducted within the church
becomes in a special way a public confession of the
Christian faith. A marriage conducted in the church is not
merely a ceremony to honor two people in love, but is a
public testimony to God’s matchless love and providence at
work in the couple’s relationship. A Christian marriage is
one where God is at the center of the relationship.
Our church is not in the business of "performing" weddings.
It is a community where marriages can be nurtured and grow
in depth and maturity. Our desire is to inspire, encourage
and equip couples to establish a Christian home and to enter
into this sacred relationship not only committed to one
another but with a firm commitment to Jesus Christ. The
pastor has a sacred trust before God in this matter;
therefore, the pastor reserves the right of exercising
discretion as to whether or not he should marry a couple who
apply for marriage at WOCIC.
There are two
basic requirements to be married at WOCIC. First, both
the groom and bride must be professing believers of Jesus
Christ, living lives reflective of this profession. Second, at least one of them must be a
faithful
attendee at WOCIC (for at least 6 months). We feel a personal
responsibility for your marriage and its continual
growth. Your commitment to belong to this congregation is a
basic foundation for Christian growth and a Christian
marriage.
As you
consider marriage at WOCIC we ask that you examine your
personal relationship with Jesus Christ as it is exemplified
in your attitude and conduct towards God and one another so
that you may establish a solid foundation for a Christian
home. Only as we honor God and obey His Word can the
foundation for the future be secure. Couples currently
living together must agree to live separately until the day
of the wedding.
All couples
will be required to attend pre-marital counseling classes
(which will be scheduled once your application is reviewed) as
well as attend an Encounter Retreat prior to your wedding
day. You can find out more about the Encounter
Retreats here.
It is our
sincere conviction that we are responsible before God to do
what we can to prepare couples for marriage. We want to
have the confidence that the marriages performed at WOCIC
meet the standards which God has established in Scripture
and therefore receive His blessing.
If you are interested in
a wedding ceremony at WOCIC, please read the
Planning For Your Marriage Ceremony
and submit an
Application. |